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  The Domestic Violence Project
Return to the Circle
 
photography by Carlos Reynosa
What is Domestic Violence?
The goal of people who use violence in their relationship is always the same. They want to control their partner through fear.

Physical Abuse

Verbal Abuse

Sexual Violence

Isolation

Coercion

Harassment

Economic Control

Abusing Trust

Threats and Intimidation

Destruction of Property

Self-Destructive Behavior

Through a grant from the State of California Department of Health Services, Maternal Child Health Branch, we have created a domestic violence project, Return to the Circle, in partnership with other Native American Agencies. By combining efforts, we will address the issue of domestic violence in the American Indian Community of Santa Barbara County.

The goal of the domestic violence project, Return to the Circle, is to create domestic violence services for Native Americans by Native Americans. Unique cultural barriers that American Indians face are a common deterrence to accessing services provided by non-Indian agencies. A survey of 223 American Indians in Santa Barbara conducted in the summer of 2000, showed that the American Indian population in Santa Barbara was not accessing the services offered by Domestic Violence Solutions according to the level of need that exists. Of the reasons people cited for not calling for help, 77% indicated they did not know who to call. In addition, both women and men indicated that they required medical attention from an injury caused by domestic violence.

With the help of Native American agencies and community leaders, Domestic Violence Solutions for Santa Barbara County is working to create culturally sensitive services for Native American victims of domestic violence. To date, the domestic violence project has provided cross-training for members of the project staff, as well as medical reporting training.

Domestic violence feeds on silence –
with this project we hope to break that silence and break the cycle. Domestic violence is not a traditional Native American value.


Services Provided
  • Talking circles
  • Crisis counseling
  • Walk-in hours at clinic
  • Appointments
  • Educational forums
  • Support groups
  • Men's groups
  • Emergency response by domestic violence advocate
  • 40-hour domestic violence training
  • Domestic violence medical reporting training

How can you help?

  • sign up to volunteer
  • join us as a member of our Domestic Violence Advisory Council
  • become educated on issues of domestic violence. DVS offers trainings.
  • join a talking circle
  • tell a friend about our project

photography by Carlos Reynosa

Partners and Collaborators:

We invite other Native American agencies
and leaders to join us!


photography by Carlos Reynosa
     

photography by Carlos Reynosa

Important Phone Numbers

Women's Shelters:
Santa Barbara
964-5245 (24 hour hotline)
Lompoc
736-0965 (24 hour hotline)
Santa Maria
925-2160 (24 hour hotline)
National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-7233

Legal and Emergency Services:
Legal Aid Foundation
963-6754
Santa Barbara Police Department
897-2300
Santa Barbara County Sheriff (Goleta)
681-4100
District Attorney Family Support
568-2330
Victim Witness Program
568-2430

Counseling and Other Programs:
Domestic Violence Solutions
682-7229
(individual &/or group counseling
for men, women, and children)
CRIS-Helpline
1-800-400-1572
American Indian Health & Services
681-7356
Community Counseling Center
962-3363
Zona Seca
963-8961

What is Domestic Violence?
The goal of people who use violence in their relationship is always the same. They want to control their partner through fear.

Physical Abuse: Hitting, slapping, kicking, choking, pushing, punching, beating.

Verbal Abuse: Constant criticism, making humiliating remarks, not responding to what the partner is saying, mocking, name-calling, yelling, swearing, interrupting, changing the subject.

Sexual Violence: Forcing sex on an unwilling partner, demanding sexual acts that the partner does not want to perform, degrading treatment.

Isolation: Making it hard for the partner to see friends and relatives, monitoring phone calls, reading mail, controlling where the victim goes, taking the victim's car keys.

Coercion: Making the partner feel guilty, pushing the victim into decisions, sulking, manipulating children and other family members, always insisting on being right, making up impossible "rules" and punishing the victim for breaking them.

Harassment: Following or stalking, embarrassing the victim in public, constantly checking up on the partner, refusing to leave when asked.

Economic Control: Keeping complete control of the money, not paying bills, refusing to give the partner money, not letting the victim work, interfering with the partner's job, refusing to work and support the family.

Abusing Trust: Lying, breaking promises, being unfaithful, being overly jealous.

Threats and Intimidation: Threatening to harm the partner, the children, family members and pets, using physical size to intimidate, shouting, keeping weapons and threatening to use them.

Destruction of Property: Destroying furniture, punching walls, throwing things, breaking things, destroying things of sentimental value.

Self-Destructive Behavior: Abusing drugs or alcohol, threatening self-harm or suicide, driving recklessly.


photography by Carlos Reynosa

FACTS

  • Every year in the U.S. there are over 3 million incidents of domestic violence. That means that every 9 seconds someone is being beaten by their domestic partner!
  • Every year over 4,000 victims of domestic violence are killed.
  • 95% of domestic violence victims are women.
  • Domestic violence causes more injuries to women in the U.S. between the ages of 15 and 44 than car accidents, muggings and rapes combined.
  • Nearly a third of the women who seek care from hospital emergency are there for injuries resulting from domestic violence.